So you wanna try new things?!
As promised, here is an extremely simple exercise to help couples (groups or whatever else you’re into) open up to eachother. We get this request alot at Midwest Triple X, as well as in our home parties that we do.
You make a list, but not just any list. You each make a list (in private) of these specific things.
1) Three things you have done in the past that you enjoy (whether with your partner or someone else)
2) Three things that you would never do
3) Three things that you would like to try
Seems simple enough, but heres the kicker. Make 1 list every month for 3 months straight. You will be suprised. You’re first, and very rarely your second list will be extremely tame (in general). All it takes is one person to break the ice to open eachothers mind, and feel comfortable. And as always, this only works with open communication, and with the understanding that it must be safe, sane, and consensual!